OMG look at that rock! Congratulations! I'm so very happy for you:) That is a very lovely ring; I too adore sapphires. I'm kinda in favor of a little JP wedding followed with the public wedding with guests. I did it myself with just dinner at our favorite restaurant after and it was nice to have that intimacy of just the 2 1/2of you(bunny's vote is with mommy till it can raise its own hand) before the event to include the rest of the family. I hope you have a Happy New Year!